Can you get pregnant any time of the month is a very common question women ask in my clinical practice. Heck this, was something I wasn’t even sure about until I got into naturopathic medical school. And this is a question a lot of women don’t know the answer to until they set out to get pregnant.
I had the opportunity to interview Sam Gladdish about her journey with birth control and this is one of the details about her health that she wished her doctor would have explained to her as a teenage girl.
You can watch the interview at the bottom of this post and I’ll share with you the highlights here, plus what you should know about getting pregnant or not getting pregnant.
Birth Control for Easier Periods
Sam started the pill because that's what all her friends were doing at her age and she saw the freedom and ease they had with their period. Can you blame a gal for wanting to get in on this?
Before she began hormonal birth control she had cramping, acne, and migraines. Once she began her cramps improved, but mood swings increased and migraines persisted. Her skin did become clear, but she felt anxiety and irritability increase leading up to her period. Essentially, her PMS mood symptoms were worse.
Can the Pill Make You Emotional?
As I explain in my book, Beyond the Pill, mood symptoms are commonly reported among women who begin hormonal contraceptives. In a large epidemiological study published in JAMA, it was found that women were more likely to be diagnosed with depression and prescribed antidepressants after beginning hormonal contraceptives. This study followed women for 13 years and found that women who were prescribed the combination birth control pill, that is estrogen and progestin, were 23% more likely to be prescribed an antidepressant.
As Sam explains, her doctor gave her zero education regarding starting hormonal birth control. She didn’t know what side effect might look like or what to look out for. And worse, she felt like she was never taught about her body, ovulation, or when you can get pregnant by her doctor or in her sex education classes.
Can I Get Pregnant Any Time of The Month?
Sam was a young teen when she started the pill. She felt frustrated that she, like so many of us, wasn't taught about her body, her hormones, or how her menstrual cycle works. “I was upset that I was so young and that no one taught me about ovulation and how you can only technically get pregnant only during one time of the month. When you're a teen you're taught you can get pregnant any day,” she said. She felt angry and betrayed, especially as she began to learn what the pill had been doing to her body over 8 years.
It wasn’t until I got into medical school that I came to understand that I couldn’t just pregnant any day out of the month. I was upset that I had been taking a pill every day when I only ovulated one day.
But so many of us are taught we can get pregnant any day out of the month. Or we aren’t taught at all about ovulation and what are the signs that we are fertile.
In fact, most of us aren’t taught about when we can get pregnant until we actually want to become pregnant. Decades into our reproductive life we are finally given information that should have been given to us the day we began are period.
The answer to this question is, no. You can not get pregnant any day of the month.
So when are you fertile and when can you get pregnant?
In general, women are only fertile about 24 hours, maybe 36 hours, in a month. That’s right, one day out of the month.
But that sperm is tricky!
Sperm can live up to 5 to 6 days in a woman’s reproductive tract. That means that you can have unprotected sex 6 days before you expect to ovulate and then become pregnant. Yikes! That sounds a bit scary, but really, it’s not.
In fact, if you’re a women using Fertility Awareness Method (FAM), you can dial this in so that you know when to avoid intercourse or use a barrier method like a condom. And these days, Femtech devices make it so much easier to know your cycle and avoid pregnancy naturally. Daysy is one fertility monitor that can help you do this. You can read more about it here.
Can you get pregnant on your period?
Was your Sex Ed an epic fail? Yeah, mine too. And so was Sam’s. In her interview she makes such powerful statements about how we are not taught about our cycles, ovulation and done a disservice when it comes to our health.
It is unlikely you can get pregnant on your period, however, if you have a longer period or shorter cycle then you may be fertile while still bleeding. Remember, sperm can live for several days.
Let me give you an example. Let’s say your period is 6-7 days, but you ovulate on days 10-12 of your cycle. Note, day 1 is the first day of your period. If you have sex days 5-7 of your period and then ovulate on day 10-12, then you may become pregnant due to the survival of sperm within your reproductive system.
Using basal body temperature tracking can help you dial this in so there are no “whoops” in the bedroom.
What are signs of ovulation?
“What’s that goop in my underwear?” I have had patients who have never experienced fertile cervical mucus until sometime in their 40’s. That’s because they were put on hormonal birth control at a young age and left on it for 20-30 years!
Ovulation signs include:
Basal Body Temperature (BBT):
Typically your temperature will decline just before ovulation and then a spike will follow with ovulation. This spike can be as subtle as say a 0.4 increase in temp or as much as a full degree. To track BBT, take your temp first thing in the morning before you get out of bed. You can do this with a thermometer then paper chart or plug the data into an app or you can use a femtech device.
Fertile Cervical Mucus:
The texture will be sticky and stretchy similar to raw egg white consistency. You may also experience and increase in secretions with a wet and slippery quality.
Sore Breasts & Nipple Tenderness:
Not every woman experiences this, but if you do mid-cycle then it may be a sign that you’re in your fertile window.
Increase in Libido:
An uptick in libido generally occurs prior to ovulation and through the fertile window.
This can take time to master, but you can feel your cervix is softer, higher, and the os (opening of cervix) will become more open in your ovulation window.
A Twinge or Cramp:
This is known as Mittelschmerz, which is when some women can feel ovulation. I explain in Beyond the Pill how to manage this if it is too uncomfortable.
It is possible to have some light spotting with ovulation. Of course, if you’re ever concerned about mid-cycle bleeding then you definitely want to meet with your doctor to have it checked out.
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Can I Get Pregnant Any Time of The Month? Beyond the Pill Stories with Sam Gladdish & Dr. Jolene Brighten
In this interview you'll learn:
- A common contraindication to using hormonal birth control that can put you at higher risk for stroke
- The mood side effects of the pill
- When you can get pregnant
- What's are the signs of ovulation
- Can you get pregnant any time of the month
- When you should come off of birth control if you'd like to become pregnant
- What you should know about birth control and your fertility